|My Sweet Angel|
I hear it all the time. Your daughter is so beautiful. I know she is. I also know that she is smart , extremely athletic , goal driven, kind, giving, helpful, forgiving, talented, considerate, thoughtful, open minded and a hopeless romantic and believe it or not, extremely shy. She is loyal to no end and will defend her friends no matter what wrongs they have done to her. She wants to be an orthopedic surgeon. She is in honors classes and gets great grades.
|Sometimes enemies can become your best friends in life.|
Wow she has it all you may say.......What she doesn't have right now is a boyfriend. This age is tough and looking the way she does makes it harder. Boys only see her for her outer shell. They think of one thing. She often asks me why they can't have feelings for her without wanting just the physical part of her, why don't they want her as a girlfriend , why don't they have feelings for her for who she really is? She has been hurt many times by girls who hate her and have never even met her or tried to get to know her. By teachers who think she's nothing but trouble because of how outgoing she is, apparently that makes her a slut. She has thought the boy she is falling for her feels the same way only to find out if she won't put out she needs to get out.
|Just a girl with a huge heart.|
People always judge us first by how we look. Fat, skinny, black , white, Mexican, crack-head, old , young, slut, hot , gross, loser, gorgeous, stuck-up, tall , short , weird, gay ....I could go on forever.
|Her 3 best friends...amazing girls, love them all!|
Don't we all just want to be loved? And be loved for what we have to offer on the inside and how we treat people. Imagine if we all looked the same , or were blind ? Wouldn't that be awesome? Then and only then would we find our one true love for the right reason.
I ask you......Why can't life be that simple?
I have always taught her to love the inside first, the outside will always grow on you, who knew that most people love just the opposite? So sad, looks go away and fade with age, but who you are and how you treat people, now that is how you are remembered......
|Don't be afraid to love life with your friends.|